my father & mother-in-law, Grandpa Owl (Al) and Grandma Joan ~
one of my all time favorite photos of them, from their many, many travels!
John's step-father Al (my father-in-law) passed away just a few days before I was to go help my cousin Shell recover from her surgery. Life - and death - are strange that way, aren't they. We never seem to know when either one will sneak up on us. We knew Al was not doing well, and were worried about his health and well being. Likewise, we were concerned for my mother-in-law Joan, who was trying so hard to take care of him.
When Joan called John and told him Al was suddenly gone..... we were equally relieved that he was able to pass away peacefully, and sorrowful that he was indeed gone. He had, of course, meant a great deal to us and to our three boys over all these years. He had been a silent yet supportive step-father to John from childhood. Together, Al and Joan were fun and lively grandparents to our boys, and were always kind and loving (and patient!) with them. They were always so good to us - supportive and encouraging, and most of all loving. We will always cherish our memories of Grandpa Owl, as he is perhaps gone, but never forgotten. And always loved :)
i'm really sorry about the loss of your father-in-law grandpa al, although i prefer owl :). the photo is great and you can imagine how they would have looked back in the day with their fancy clothes. people of that generation were much fancierthan we are today even in their everyday clothes.
ReplyDeleteit's a tough and bittersweet experience. you realize the person who passed is in a better place, but we are left here to deal with the loss and the void even if the final days were challenging.
sending you hugs and love, cindy
What a beautiful tribute and I LOVE that picture! Yes LIFE has a way of keeping us always readjusting.
ReplyDeleteCindy and Wendy, thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful comments :) I so appreciate them (and you!) - with love, me xoxo
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