Friday, November 18, 2011

some sweetness

These stories speak for themselves... ENJOY! :)

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.

He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.

I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.  While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.

I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is'.

I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life'.

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‘TIL DEATH DO US PART: ELDERLY COUPLE DIES HOLDING HANDS

  • Posted on October 20, 2011 at 8:39am by Liz Klimas
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  • Gordon, 94, and Norma Yeager, 90, of Des Moines, Iowa, were married for 72 years. According to a local report, from high school onward they wanted to be together forever. On Earth, they got about as close to “forever” as any human couple could ask for, and last week they died an hour apart while holding hands with each other.
  • KCCI reports the couple’s son, Dennis Yeage,  as saying the couple was in a car accident last Wednesday, which put them in intensive care. Nurses did not separate the couple. Gordon died first but, as Dennis says in the news clip, Gordon’s heart monitor was still registering a beat. This is because the monitor was picking up Norma‘s heart beat through Gordon’s hand. Norma died an hour later:
“Staying together for 72 years is good, I‘d say that’s exceptional,” said daughter Donna Sheets.
“Neither one of them would’ve wanted to be without each other. I couldn’t figure out how it was going to work,” said Donna Sheets. “We were very blessed, honestly, that they went this way.”
 KCCI reports that the couple was buried holding hands in their casket on Monday.


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The Sack Lunches 
I put my carry-on in the luggage compartment and sat down in my assigned seat.  It was going to be a long flight. "I'm glad I have a good book to read. Perhaps I will get a short nap," I thought.  Just before take-off, a line of soldiers came down the aisle and filled all the  vacant seats, totally surrounding me.  I decided to start a conversation.  "Where are you headed?" I asked the soldier seated nearest  to me.  
"Chicago - to Great Lakes Base.  We'll be there for two weeks for special training,  and then we're being deployed to Iraq " After flying for about an hour, an announcement was made that sack lunches were  available for five dollars.  It would be several hours before we reached  Chicago, and I quickly decided a lunch would help pass the time. As I reached for my wallet, I overheard a soldier ask his buddy if he planned to buy  lunch.  "No, that seems like a lot of money for just a sack lunch. Probably wouldn't be worth five bucks. I'll wait till we get to Chicago .  
His friend agreed. I looked around at the other soldiers.  None were buying lunch. I  walked to the back of the plane and handed the flight attendant a fifty dollar bill.  "Take a lunch to all those soldiers." She grabbed my arms and  squeezed tightly.  Her eyes wet with tears, she thanked me.  "My son was a soldier in Iraq ; it's almost like you are doing it for him."  
Picking up ten sacks, she headed up the aisle to where the soldiers were seated.  She stopped at my seat and asked, "Which do you like best - beef or chicken?"  
"Chicken," I replied, wondering why sh e asked.  She turned and went to the front of  plane, returning a minute later with a dinner plate from first class.  "This is your thanks." After we finished eating, I went again to the back of the plane, heading for the rest room.  A man stopped me.  "I saw what you did.  I want to be part  of it.  Here, take this."  He handed me twenty-five dollars.  
Soon after I returned to my seat, I saw the Flight Captain coming down the aisle,  looking at the aisle numbers as he walked, I hoped he was not looking for me,  but noticed he was looking at the numbers only on my side of the plane.  When he got to my row he stopped, smiled, held out his hand,
an said, "I want to  shake your hand."  
Quickly unfastening my seatbelt I stood and took the Captain's hand.  With a booming voice he said, "I was a soldier and I was a military pilot.  Once, someone bought me a lunch.  It was an act of kindness I never  forgot."  I was embarrassed when applause was heard from all of the  passengers.  
  
Later I walked to the front of the plane so I could stretch my legs.  A man who was  seated about six rows in front of me reached out his hand, wanting to shake  mine.  He left another twenty-five
dollars in my palm.    
When we landed in Chicago I gathered my belongings and started to deplane. Waiting  just inside the airplane door was a man who stopped me, put something in my  shirt pocket, turned, and walked away without saying a word.  Another  twenty-five dollars!
Soon entering the terminal, I saw the soldiers gathering for their trip to the  base.  I walked over to them and handed them seventy-five dollars.  "It will take you some time to reach the base. It will be about time for a sandwich.  God Bless You." 
Ten young men left that flight feeling the love and respect of their fellow travelers. As I walked briskly to my car, I whispered a prayer for their  safe return.  These soldiers were giving their all for our country. I  could only give them a couple of meals. It seemed so little...

  
A veteran is someone who, at one point in his life wrote a  blank check Made payable to "The United States of America " for an amount of "up  to and including my life." That is Honor, and there are way too many people in  This country who no longer understand it."

Makes you stop and give thanks, doen't it :) 

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